We are so glad that 2 our clients are in love whis our girls. Its bid pleasure to see our clients in love. This is a rusult of our work. LOVE is the most strong feeling in the world. From LOVE starts everything in the world.
love to ward off depression. Follow these action strategies to get more
of what you want out of life—to love and be loved.
Recognize the difference between limerance and love. Limerance is
the psychological state of deep infatuation. It feels good but rarely
lasts. Limerance is that first stage of mad attraction whereby all the
hormones are flowing and things feel so right. Limerance lasts, on
average, six months. It can progress to love. Love mostly starts
out as limerance, but limerance doesn't always evolve into love.
Know that love is a learned skill, not something that comes from
hormones or emotion particularly. Erich Fromm called it "an act of will."
If you don't learn the skills of love you virtually guarantee that you
will be depressed, not only because you will not be connected enough but
because you will have many failure experiences.
Learn good communication skills. They are a means by which you
develop trust and intensify connection. The more you can communicate the
less depressed you will be because you will feel known and
There are always core differences between two people, no matter how
good or close you are, and if the relationship is going right those
differences surface. The issue then is to identify the differences and
negotiate them so that they don't distance you or kill the
You do that by understanding where the other person is coming from,
who that person is, and by being able to represent yourself. When the
differences are known you must be able to negotiate and compromise on
them until you find a common ground that works for both.